Polite rejection dating
Also, forgiveness is for when someone has a) stopped doing the harmful thing and b) apologized.
These people haven’t even done you the courtesy of an honest conversation about what’s happening. Cool, okay, well, have a good day.”” “Husband, I saw you in the pub the other day, was that my mother?
Obviously the ick factor of a your husband having an affair with his wife’s mother is high.
B) In between all the references to “her perfect body” and you pining for the companionable life of long talks and theatre visits you’ve lost, there’s the fact that this has been going on long enough for her to move into your house… That doesn’t mean his choices are your fault – I don’t know how your open marriage works or what ground rules you set but I’m pretty sure he owed you at least one direct “” this is a case of some deep, deep incompatibility and disconnection between the two of you. Did he know whether you ever wanted to come back from living with this most recent dude?And your mother chooses the one man in the universe who is married to her daughter?That is some unfathomable shitheadery right there, from both of them. I don’t believe that there is romantic love that is somehow divorced from the choices you make about what to do about your feelings.My mother is the one having long talks with my husband at night, or going to a nice restaurant with him or the theatre and I am at a grubby pub every night with my alcoholic lover.I have started stalking them, sitting in the car down the street from our house, drinking vodka from the bottle, and watching them come out hand in hand to play tennis in the courts down the street or go out to dinner.